J.T.
I have thrown a few "nontraditional" showers and here are some of the games we played
1. bobbing for nipples
2. Guess the poop: melt different candy bars in diapers and you have to guess what candy it is
3. It's not really a game but have someone write down remarks she makes while opening presents without her knowing and when it is all done, Announce to everyone here are a few things that could have been overheard the night the baby was made: usually it gets a good laugh, especially with the "it is so tiny" and "how cute"
Have fun!