This is what I have done for my children at that age. I have a 15 month old right now.
Breakfast
scrambled eggs and times I add a little cheese and mushrooms (chopped small)
cheerio's dry or with a little milk (if I feed it to her)
sauage links cut up small
mixed fruit or any type of fruit chopped small enough that she won't choke on any of it.
pancakes (my daughter loves this with fruit on the side pancakes don't have to have butter or syrup on them)
Lunch / Dinner
We eat a lot of Chicken and Fish but since your husband is allergic I don't suggest to cook chicken or fish for you daughter to often. but the chicken nuggets and fish sticks are nice also.
warm up a can of mixed veggies
hot dogs cut up small
smokey links sauages (these are good anytime of the day they come in different flavors and it is a good snack)
lil' smokeys also
lunch meats as long as they are cut into small pieces
yogurt (lunch or breakfast)
in the baby aisle at stores they have the what I call the "toddler lunchables" they have lunch meals and dinner meals. they also have different snacks in this area of the store also.
mac and cheese
rice and little sauage pieces
steam frozen veggies
mashed potatoes
cottage cheese
green beans are my daughters favorite and they are easy to pick
hamburger helper meals are nice also. tuna helper meals
Spaghetti we use the elbow noodles though
the canned meals are not that bad either spaghetti o's ect.
peas
stir fry dinners my kids love them I let them cook long enough so the veggies were not as crisp for the kids.
I also bake a lot of my meat and put roast in my crock pot so the meat will be tender enough for the children.
I am one I let my children eat a lot of veggies and fruits they also love to have eggs and breakfast foods for dinner.
I just hope that some of these ideas helped you.
good luck