S.W.
First of all limit the scope of the album. I would recommend doing just the first year. Also you do not have to do it chronologically. Try seasons, holidays, people, family, events....
If you want to do it chronologically, choose 10-12 pictures for each month and highlight those pictures. Do not be obsessed with putting every picture that you own/have printed in the book.
I would organize all the pages/pictures per page for all the pictures then start cropping. Don't cut all your pictures in shapes, just focus on the pictures and telling the story.
While I am a Creative Memories Consultant and am willing to help you I would recommend that you go to www.creativememories.com and find a consultant close to you that does workshops. Then you will have some time blocked off to work on the project.
I hope this helps.