Need to Curb Young, Active Cat's Nocturnal Activities -- We're Sleep-deprived!

Updated on December 30, 2008
S.C. asks from Secaucus, NJ
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Two months ago we adopted a young spayed female cat from the animal shelter and named her Lucy. The shelter had no background paperwork on her except for her vaccination and medical records since she arrived there two months before, and placed her age at six months, but our regular vet said she was a small adult approximately a year old. In any case, she's clearly a young cat and she's VERY active, especially at night. Now I'm no stranger to cats' nocturnal activities, having had three other cats in the past, all of which are gone now. Our last cat had to be put to sleep over the summer at age 14, so it had been a long time since I had a young cat -- and I had been 14 years younger and childless when I adopted him.

We've had a lot of broken sleep since Lucy came to live with us. She sleeps all day, naturally, and begins to show signs of friskiness in the evening after dinner. We'll break out the cat toys and play fetch, which is her favorite game, in an attempt to wear her out so she'll sleep all night. No such luck. Her first wakeup call comes around 1:30 AM, when my daughter kicks Lucy out of her room for playing with anything she can get her paws on. Undaunted, Lucy then wanders into our room and plays with everything from a pen on our dresser to the fringe on our bedspread. Finally I kick her out of our room as well. All is quiet for two hours until she awakens us (or me, at least) at 3:30 AM with her pitiful meowing outside our closed bedroom door. Failing to heed her cries she resorts to scratching at the door. Eventually she gives up, but by then I'm wide awake. When I finally drift back to sleep again I'm rudely awakened by the alarm at 5:00. Another night of broken sleep, another day of battling fatigue and brain fog from sleep deprivation.

Long story short: we need sleep! What can we do to get Lucy to calm down at night, or barring that, keep her nocturnal activities from waking us up?

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So What Happened?

First off, thanks to all you cat lovers for your suggestions. One thing I hadn't considered was the catnip in Lucy's toys, which were apparently riling her up even more (kind of similar to getting your kid wound up at bedtime). Another cat is unfortunately out of the question; after the first of my two cats passed my husband said there would be no more pets after the second one went. When we had to put the second one to sleep over the summer it took a lot of begging, pleading and cajoling from both my daughter and me to get my husband to finally agree to another cat. We're lucky to have the one; I don't want to push my luck. Lucy gets plenty of attention during the day; when I'm not teaching my Music Together classes or running errands, I'm home running the administrative end of the business and keeping house, and Lucy tends to be my little shadow. Last night I tried playing with her a little later than usual, making her catch a string that I dangled rather than her usual game of fetch. Then I fed her a big meal. Tired and full, Lucy curled up next to me in bed and slept all night. I may be on to something here, and if it means a slightly later bedtime for me that's ok.

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S.R.

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I know this will seem kind of cruel, but I would lock her in a bathroom at night, or in a large size crate so that she has plenty of room for a cat box, put her as far away from bedrooms as you can get. It's really not that cruel, and although she might meow for the first few nights, she will get used to it, and start sleeping through the night since there's nothing to stimulate her. Just think of it as ferberizing for cats. Don't feed her canned cat food in the evening if you do. It has more calories than dry.

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K.M.

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It's been a long time since I've had a cat. First, make sure none her toys have cat nip in them. That's just going to make her more crazy! If they do, take them away at night, and only let her play with them during the day. Second, try your best to play with her really hard right after you get home in the afternoon, and wear her out. I mean like you would a dog, throw toys and everything. Every cat I've ever had loved to play fetch with crinkly toys. And third, if none of that works then get a kennel for her to sleep in at night, or lock her in the bathroom so she can't get to you. I bet she's a calico isn't she? Good luck.

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L.D.

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easiest answer, get another young kat/kitten, they will play with each other and you can lock them out of your room and they will leave you alone because they have company.

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M.Z.

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Hi, S.,

We have a young boy (neutered male) named Zamm we adopted from the shelter. He was about 6 months old when we brought him home. He's about 2½ years old now. He was a really, really frisky little fellow at night, too, but he eventually got into the culture of the house. We have an older girl, and she is very sedate at night, so that helped Zammy get into the routine, I think.

I'm guessing no one's home during the day to stimulate Lucy, right? Does she have window perches she can look out of during the day? Does she have a climbing tree in the house (one of those carpeted kitty condos). She might be able to get a bit more exercise on her own during the day (or not, I don't know).

One thing you might consider is (ulp) adopting a buddy for her, maybe a slightly older cat. That kitty (it'd have to be somebody you're sure would get along with a younger kitty) might take the heat off you at night and might give Lucy someone to expend her frisky energy with.

I hope that helps!

I think eventually Lucy will come to realize that nights are for sleeping in your house

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D.S.

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Hi, S.!

How about getting her another kitty friend? This way, they can play with each other and wear each other out. Do you have an extra room that you can put her in, maybe a bathroom? She'll need her litter box, food and water bowls, and lots of toys! Playing with her during the day and now allowing her to sleep should help, too.

I think the kitty friend is the best way to go.

D.

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J.B.

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Sounds like boredom and then she has no one to hang out with. I've had cats too, and you may want to try waking her up and not letting her sleep when you're around eventually at night time she may just go to sleep on a bed after being played out. We have a 7 month old boy and older girl cat, and a dog and he is finally settling down. I will never get another kitten - and my other cat Bella is around 5 so he has some company. Would you consider an older mate like 2 for your Lucy.

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C.H.

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How about closing your bedroom doors to keep the cat out or closing the cat into a laundry room or bathroom.

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M.C.

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Just give her a ride back to the kennel and let her think you are taking her back-then she will appreciate you......no I am just kidding.

The other lady seemed to have have had some really good advice.

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