Hi C.,
I personally am not a homeschooling mom, but a wonderful woman I work with is. I relayed your suitation to her and this is what she responded with. She is also living in Ballston Spa so let me know if you need anything else and I will ask her.
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I'm answering for M., I am a homeschooling mom in Ballston Spa. First thing... Relax. This district is really easy to work with. We have a support group with other homeschooling families (about 100) and are linked to the group statewide. The link to our website is http://www.cliftonpark.org/ecommunity/saratogaleah/benefi... . We have support meetings on the first Thursday of every month. We share curriculum, have people who are more than willing to mentor, and we share resources. I am currently working and have two friends who help out with my daughter. Do not contact the school district for advice, contact us (or another support group) first. The school district doesn't know the regulations.
Signed, Patti
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As an additional note C., the main school year meeting for the support group is next month, the first thrusday in August, from 7-9 PM at the Greater Grace Community Church in Malta, NY. If you will be here then, may be worth popping into. Children are welcome and childcare during the meeting is available. If you are going to be in the direct Ballston Spa school district, the person you would need to contact is Susan Stoya. From what I hear, she is the only one who will be able to help you exactly as you need.