I once swore I would never have a mini van. Then I had my second child and my old Cherokee was on it's last leg.
I got a 05 Honda Odyssey. I did a lot of research. It is sad as the lease is up and due to my divorce and credit issues I have to turn it back in, I am actually very sad about this. I LOVE THIS vehicle.
I took the middle console out and it fits five children in a breeze, TONS of room for traveling, groceries and all that. I like if you are traveling the back seats lay down, perfect for changing diapers or extra luggage. It has super high safety ratings.
I have had it four years and had to do NOTHING other then change the oil. It only has 17,000 miles so someone is going to score because it will be the used vehicle star! They will jack up the price and someone will pay it as my pay off is not that much compared to the value. I am so depressed giving this up. It was a great car and think long term, like when your boys get just a big older, need to have friends go with them, if family comes into town as the back is very comfortable even for a grown up.
With the middle console it can seat 8, however I just didn't like it and the kids are so safe in the middle.
I highly recommend when you are thinking, think in two years both boys wanting a friend to go along somewhere, getting a mini van will help you out big time.
Not to mention they get better gas mileage then SUV's.
Just my two cents. I am having to buy an older model sedan as I have to pay cash and I honestly cried at the Honda dealership when they wouldn't let me finance the van. Lesson learned we should have dealt with a higher payment and bought it, but that was before I got divorced.
It sucks as I will miss it so much. It has been the best car I have ever driven!! :) I have had Pathfinders, Cherokee, smaller cars and it was far best the most awesome. I know, it is a car but I felt so safe, loved all the features, how well it drove and know like you with a Honda it can go forever if you take care of it.
Good luck.