B.M.
I will be reading the replies with interest, because my doctor has been talking to me about fibro lately. As for pain management, I've been learning a few things- I find that it's better for me to pace myself, but I get too focused on doing one thing for too long and I end up paying for it. Try doing a little at a time. Don't give up on doing things- if I rest too long I get stiff. But if I do too much that hurts too- listen to your body and DO WHAT IT SAYS! I'm learning, but it's taking a while.
Do you have an understanding partner? It's important that the people in your life understand what you are going through. Let your partner know which tasks are too much for you and when you're having a bad pain day. It takes communication. Remember- no one can see your pain, and no one can read your mind.
I just tried my first fibro drug- Lyrica- and discontinued use after one dose because it seemed like animal tranquilizer mixed with truth serum. Not for me. I'm on antidepressants and sleep aids- maybe they're helping, maybe not. Who knows. Right now I'm biting the bullet, but I'm hoping to find something that helps without too many side effects.
I had relief from acupuncture, but it stopped working after a while. I would definitely try it again. I am signed up to take a Qi Gong class at Kaiser and think it might help. One small thing- it's expensive these days, but keep your house well heated. I find that the cold gets me tensed up and increases my pain.
Do things that make you happy- pleasure actually has an effect on pain. It sounds corny but it's true.
Don't give up! Do as much as you can. It's a balance thing I think. Again, I look forward to learning from the responses here. Thanks for asking the question.