Hi There
I am in the boat as you. My son is 6 months old and I had an emergency c section after pushing for 3 hours.
We have only had intercourse 3 times since then and each time was very painful for me. We use to have sex 2 or 3 times a week. Now I have zero interest it.
I have done some research on this and believe this is mostly hormonal, it's nature's birth control. Are you breastfeeding? I am, I think that plays into it too. I have read many moms don't enjoy sex for up to a year after birth.
I have my yearly exam in a couple of weeks and will bring this up with my doctor but I imagine she will say it's normal.
In the meantime I recommend sharing in other intimate activities with your husband, snuggling, massages, etc...
Best wishes!