S.,
Hi,
My twins were going to a ped similar to yours. They are brothers who work together. Their office is always so very full, their waiting room and "holding" room. It seems like the one brother ped only took 3-4 min per twin.
Finally, we left and found a new ped just down the street and was in our health plan. She is much better at actually looking at out twins and asking lots of important questions. She actually cares about the well being of our babies. Can you imagine that!
If I were you, I would search for a new ped who will take more time with you and ask the questions you want answered.
Hope this helps you and your daughter.