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I have gone to a osteopath in Richfield. Her name is Cheryl Leuthhauser. She has helped me a lot over the years. YOu also need to get your thyroid tested to make sure that is not involved. YOu can have your regular doctor do all the tests and take the results to the other dr. YOu can also request you dr to do the hormone tests. I asked my dr years ago and he did it. DO not be afraid to ask for the tests and explain why you think you need the tests. Dr CHeryl's practice is called Integrative Wellness. Here is her website.
http://integrativewellcare.com/index.html
SHe has helped me with a lot of allergy issues too that have contributed to some of my perimenopause issues. ALso I know that many dr's use bc pills to handle perimenopause issues. I have several friends that were prescribed that as well but a really low dose as to not cause any problems. I prefer not to take pills if I don;t have to. Vitamins could also play a good role here. Good luck to you.