Poop Patty Trauma and Drama

I’m hoping against hope that all you smart mamas might be able to help. My daughter (2.5 years) eats a whole food organic diet. Her diet consists primarily of quinoa, broccoli, carrots, whole wheat bread, whole wheat pasta, spinach, yogurt with added probiotic and flax seed, basically lots of veggies and fiber, she isn’t a big fruit eater but I keep trying. Here is the problem, for about 6 months now, she poops sometimes 4-7 times a day, but only tiny amounts (tablespoon or teaspoon only) so potty training has been exceptionally difficult. She evacuates such a small amount at a time that it doesn’t even fall into the potty so she keeps a little "poop patty" in her cheeks and it causes pretty severe rash sometimes which adds to the potty training drama. I’ve been advised to give her more fruit but she is a tough eater, sometimes she will eat dried cranberries and raisins but only if she is in the mood. I’ve tried apricots and prunes also but she refuses. I give her babyfood prunes with oatmeal and I’ve also given her an herbal supplement but nothing seems to really truly work. I’ve tried miralax in the past but it just makes her body dependant on it.
So, do any of you smart mama’s have any advice that may help me on my quest? Or perhaps you have a great naturopathic doctor to recommend or a regular doc who is more holistically based? Your help is very much appreciated.
Thank you!