A.L.
Hi S.,
Hope I'm not too late with my response...two of my pregnancies were breach. My second child was a footling breach, the OB tried an external version, but after manipulating/pushing for ten minutes or so, he noticed on an ultrasound that my son was positioned with his head tipped back (a position in which he still sleeps sixteen years later!) and he said "I'll never get this baby to turn." A C-section was scheduled, but I went into labor before the scheduled date and delivered that footling breach (something I'm told they would never allow today because of the risks). My fourth pregnancy was also breach...and this time the version worked and I delivered normally a few weeks later. It's not a pleasant experience, but neither is it painful or traumatic...at least it wasn't for me.
Hope this helps in some way. Best wishes to you and blessings to you and your precious family,
A.