Possibly Looking for a New Pre-school in 95124 Area

B.,
Don't know if this works for your schedule but my kids both went to San Jose Parents Participating preschool, it does require that you work in the classroom one day a week. It has a fairly laid back style as it follows the NAEYC guidlines of free play. There are many things the kids can do, play outside, eat snack, art projects, science, etc. There is a circle time, though the kids can choose not to participate. My youngest finished preschool 3 years ago but if I had another one I would go back. It is located next to the senior center in willow glenn on Radio Ave just north of Curtner.
Good Luck
Amanda

Creative Habitit is a nice place. They may work for you. The classes are pretty small and it is very organized. Fun and playful, but organized and educational.

I love Action Day/Primary Plus on Moorpark and Winchester. A great teacher for the four year olds is Mr. Aguedo. He is wonderful and patient. He is also bilingual and teaches Spanish. They have a lot of extra stuff they offer like computer classes, dance and sports.

Clement School. (go to Clementschool.com for infor.)
On Branham Ave in between Almaden and Pearl. It's rated #1 in Bay Area Parent. The cost is kinda high. For three days a week it's about $450 a month. They do have a two day program which is a little cheaper.

I've sent my three kids there and they love it. They are good with kids that have outbursts such as your daughter. Give them a try.