A.C.
Hi S.,
My daughter is potty trained since she was about 19months old.
When you said that she freaks out when she pees on her self that is a good sign!
Just forget about the pool ups, and go big girl underwear!Get her special "underwears"!And just be patient for couple of days! do it when you are stress free and nothing is going on!Good Luck, your daughter will be fine!
A.