Hi S., Well let me see, first off make it fun, never get angry. My 31/2 yr old has been pretty much potty trained for 1 yr now, so I started at 21/2 as well. She caught on right away with the peeing, and hardly had any accidents. But.. the pooping just came, in fact a few days ago. She had the control, and knew she was suppose to go in the toilet, but she kept telling me she was scared that she would fall in. My husband and I tried everything from stools, to potty seats, to bribing her with gifts ect... Nothing worked. She did however make it easy in the sense that she would only go at home. My pedo kept telling me that when she is ready she will go, well one day she woke up and said I need to poop, she went into the bathroom and did it all by herself!! YEA!! So this is my story, and I hope it helps. Remember all children are different and have their own ways. Good luck!