Hi P.
I know potty training can be soo confusing, frustrating and difficult. I just potty trained my boy in about 3 days. He still has an accident here or there (about every 2wks he'll have one)..but that's normal.
First I would ask if you are using pull ups or have put her in underwear. We went cold turkey..no pull ups (except for naps and nightime) because they tend, like a diaper, to pull moisture away from the child so they don't understand as well how uncomfortable pottying in their pants can be. It's hard to clean up all the accidents you'll have the first day or two, but so worth it as your child develops the understanding that having wet pants is not comfortable and that they then begin to understand that feeling their body gives them telling them to go potty.
Monitor her liquid intake..my boy would need to go potty about 20-30 minutes after drinking juice. Ask them every 15 minutes or so (It's frustrating...and you get sick of asking, but it'll begin to work). Don't "chain" her to the potty...if she says she is done, and hasn't gone, tell her to try one more push..then let her off. Again..when she pees her pants she'll begin to get the idea. When she does go on the potty, make a big deal out of it...dance, sing, tell everyone what a great job she did...when she has an accident, tell her it's ok, don't yell, scream or discipline her...this is all new and she's learning from scratch. Clean it up (you may even have her help)...smile, hug her and remind her that we go "pee pee in the potty."
Also, a quick note that it may take an extra day or two for her to be ok with pooping on the potty. My boy held it for a couple of days because the feeling is also new and 'weird'.
Good luck to you all....I know this was long, but I hope it helps....