I am writing this message for my sister, she had a question and i really didnt know the answer. she thinks shes pregnant and shes not sure who the father is. Her LMS was on may 24 and she had sex with one guy on june 9 and another guy june 2. but last month she had sex may 9, may20, and may 31. shes not sure what date got her pregnant.
She is not going to be able to guess who the baby's dad is, based upon calendar days. She is going to need a bone fide paternity test. Sad situation. Good luck to all involved.
So what's your question?
Um yeah. Why all the guessing? Why not take a pregnancy test? Assuming she has a 28-30 day cycle it should be due any day or late. So buy an E*P*T and pee on the thing.
Whether it comes out positive or negative, your "sister" needs to get to her obstetrician ASAP to confirm whether the pregnancy test results are accurate with a blood test. She also needs to have the OB test for STDs at the same time and do an exam. If she's not pregnant, then the OB will give her advice for safe sex practices when you have multiple sex partners. She should also put her on birth control, like an IUD or something that she shouldn't have to think about until she's ready to settle down.
If she IS pregnant, the OB will talk to her about maintaining a healthy lifestyle for the sake of the pregnancy if she plans to keep the pregnancy. She'll also get the safe sex talk since she can still get STDs while pregnant.
So, while redundant, quit with the guessing. Be proactive. The internet isn't the same as going out, buying a pregnancy test, and peeing on it. Get the digital one so there's no mistake.
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Tell her to go to a doctor and get a pregnancy test done.
Then tell her to use protection.
Then tell her to keep her legs closed until she can provide a stable environment for a child. That means - no partying and having W. sex with God Knows Who and then wonder who the daddy is....
if she is pregnant she'll have to get DNA samples of the guys she had sex with and do DNA testing...
If the 1st day of her last menstral period was may 24th, the probable date of conception would be around June 7th (so probabyle the guy she had sex with on the 9th is babydaddy). her due date will be Feb 28th. These are estimates and not an exact science. Everyone cycles are different, this is mostly based on a 28 day cycle. She shouldsee her Dr ASAP to be tested and treated for any STD, as she sounds quite permiscuous. I hope she will cut down on sexual partners now that she's pregnant. Best of luck.
She needs to see a DR. She needs to get a pregnancy test, AND STD testing. She can then find out all the details. She will have to acquire DNA samples from these random dudes, for paternity. If she is not pregnant, please still get her tested for STDs. She needs to have a heart to heart with a qualified Dr. about the incredible risks she is taking with her body. She needs to be on birth control. Perhaps, counseling as well. She is making destructive, damaging choices. Hopefully, this has been a lesson in what not to do.
I agree with what was said below, she needs to see a dr. right away. She needs to be checked for std's if she has been having unprotected sex with multiple partners. Did she have sex with a different guy in may, or was it one of the two guys from june? i would just take a guess that it was the guy from may 31, june 2 or june 9th. i know this isn't helpful, sorry.
It depends on how long her mentrsual cycle etc. is. My guess is she was most fertile around June 2nd but really impossible to tell. She will probably have to get a test done once the baby is born if she is pregnant. She hasnt taken a pregnancy test yet
