ProActive is pretty strong. Our daughter tried the wipes once and it burned her.
My daughter and I are fortunate and daughter has few breakouts.
However, when she was about 10, I took her to the dermatoligist (Allen Menter at Baylor downtown Dallas is one of the greatest and his PA's are great) for a proactive approach to daughter's skiincare.
We both use Clinique and that works great for us. I've used it since I was about 11 and so has daughter (now 16). I am 49 and pass for early 30's BUT that is thanks to good genes, good health and a faithful skin care routine daily. My daughter does have my habits as far as skincare.
Some gentle yet very effective dermatologist recommended products are Cetaphil and Purpose.
We did get a creme for daughter's sporadic breakout that was RX and aout $260/tube with insurance.. that was co-pay. I think it was Epi-duo which was a combo of Duac and another creme. It was good stuff but daughter did not see it as being "that" beneficial. She did use Duac for a while.
Keep in mind, you kindof become immune to the products after a while. We will both switch up on occasion just to keep balanced.
Also, if you have a Sephora close to you (some are located inside JC Penny stores), they have good products which include Murad (daughter likes the one the spot Murad, about $28) and facial cleansers. Clinique also makes an acne wash that daughter uses most of the time.
Good luck... fortunately we didn't have much trouble with breakouts but when those hormones start changing, and they become tweens, you just never know what to expect but to be prepared.