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Hey L.,
First things first. No, a one year old dog, no matter how big it is, shouldn't be having accidents in the house, especially if she can go 8 hours in the crate and not have any in there. Just as with children, you set the rules and with dogs, the rules are "always" or "never." Either they are always allowed to do something, or they are never allowed to do something. They don't understand, "well just this one time." I understand your dilemma with your husband recouperating, but consistency is important to setting the boundaries for your dog now. I recommend putting her back in the crate at night. If necessary, move her crate to the kitchen or laundry room. You may have an hour or so of whining, but eventually she will realize that she's in for the night and will settle down (if she barks, don't go in and 'ssshhh' her or acknowledge her...that's what she wants). I'm a registered veterinary technician with 16 years of experience and have owned more than my share of dogs over the years. Remember, all you do now shapes her behavior for the future. If you find she's having accidents in the crate, you may want to contact your vet. Urinary tract infections can be a legitimate culprit and cause some significant problems. Hope this was helpful. Remember, tough love!