C.F.
I'm in the same boat as you. I have 4 kids and we're finished. I'm sick of the issues when I sneeze and cough and yell (I never do that!) I have had 2 friends gets it done from what it sounds like the way you described and they LOVE it so I'm going in to get it done too. Both of my friends had an easy recovery. Just took it easy and all went well. I know this isn't much but I'm glad you posted to let me know I'm not alone. Good luck.
C.