D.T.
Hi,
Well I have a boy. But he had a really bad diaper rash a few weeks ago. And what worked wonders was California Baby's Calendula Cream and Avalon Organics Diaper Cream/Balm (it has the most zinc oxide than any other product without harsh/toxic chemicals). The way I did it was I put the calendula cream on first and be real generous and leave a thin layer that is visible too. And then on top of that put the diaper cream/balm but blot it so as not to rub or smear away that layer of calendula cream. My mother in law was just commenting how awesome his little butt looks these days. And I like these two products because they are natural with no chemicals or toxins. I use everthing organic and natural without chemical, etc. for my son and I'm happy with the products and feel good about using it on him. Oh, also, I stopped using "Huggies" wipes and went to 7th generation and/or 365 degrees brand from the Whole Foods store. Both wipes have no alcohol and are non-irritating and have aloe vera in them. Hope you find something that helps.