Hi M.,
My 8-yr-old daughter and I make an annual road trip from Wesley Chapel to Johnstown, PA - we have done this for the last 4 years. We do it in 2 days, so we stay over night in a hotel half-way there. Days Inn's are great because they are inexpensive and most have a mini-fridge in the room. If you have triple A you can often get a room for as low as $50 a night. We pack a cooler and bring things like PB & J so that we can stop at the rest areas along the way for lunch. My daughter can run around and burn off energy and we actually get to be outside for a little while rather than cooped up in a restaraunt where she has to "behave". I also take a portable DVD player and headphones and she watches movies and kids shows along the way - which keeps her attention for 1.5 to 2 hours at a time. In between she loves to draw - so I have bought I nice pack of colored PENCILS (no ink or marker to get on the upholstery!) and pads of plain paper. Color Wonder are also great if they like to color rather than draw because they also will not get all over anything and you can even take them into restaraunts, etc. I also make the hotel stay an adventure - and she looks forward to that. We bring popcorn (again, most Days Inn's have little microwaves in the room - and they also have free breakfast.) Your kids are a little young, but I also bring games - card games and smaller things for in the car (your Mom can play with them - or if you are switching off driving you can take turns) and even a board game like CandyLand or Chutes and Ladders for in the hotel room. These are just some of the things we have done for the past 3-4 years as we make our annual trek up and back. Hope this helps!
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