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Depending on your finances, my husband and I now splurge on suites. It makes the trip! DVD in the car is a lifesaver. Everyone parks strollers at Disney land so defiantly bring and park to carry all the stuff. Sleeping arrangements are key. Our daughter never took to the pack and play so we travel with a portable crib (I have found hotels have moved to a pack n play style crib and no longer provide the wheel in cribs) We bring all her own blankets and animals. Otherwise, just go for it. It might go smooth, it might be a living hell. We've experienced both while traveling, but since we just took the plunge and did it, we now have a good little traveler.
I live in the area, so I will not be good a hotel suggestions. If you are hoping to leave and return to the park for naps, Disney land hotel is the only way to go. If D.L. is just a day trip and you want to stay somewhere nice steer clear of Anaheim, its an arm pit. Find a place on the beach!