I live Hospice. They are Angels on earth.
They know all about dying and the different ways people do this.
We had a grandfather placed in Hospice when he was 92.. He was so weak and tired. after 6 MONTHS! they sent him home.. he went back and forth to Hospice and back home.. He did not die until he was 103!
We enjoyed the time he was in Hospice, it was a time for us to rest from his constant care and a chance for him to really get some extra attention.
Many times, we knew this is it.m he will die any day,,. and each time he rallied.
My friend died in Hospice earlier this year. She was there about 5 days.. The instructions for her were very different than they had been for Grandfather.
She had different types of cancer and we were instructed.. not to ask her questions, not to pet her, and to keep her room as peaceful as possible.. She was at such peace. We all got to spend time with her. We saw her transform and then we even had a rosary in her room and I knew she was at peace.. She dies the one night her mom stayed with her throughout the night.
He will find his peace, and they will allow him whatever he requests, but they will be honest with him.. They do not hide what is happening to him. They send in Doctors, Pastors, and Counselors to speak with him throughout the day to check on him.. This is all they do. Help people die with peace and dignity.
I am sorry that you feel so bad. But I promise he is being beautifully cared for.