Seat & Layover Recommendations for Flights to Hawaii with 2Yo?

Updated on May 20, 2008
C.L. asks from Tampa, FL
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My brother is in the army and is stationed in Hawaii. Poor him, I know! My husband and I are planning to take our 2yo son to see him and his family there in September. My question is regarding tips for air travel with a toddler: Is it better to sit at the front of the plane behind a wall/close to the bathroom, or in the back of the plane/close to the bathroom? I thought that in the front would be good because we wouldn't have anyone directly in from of us and may have a little more room for our stuff? But, I thought that it could be bad for us because everyone on the plane would be staring at us and our hyperactive 2yo son. So, being in the back might allow us to hide a little better? The total travel time to Hawaii is about 12-14hrs, so we were wondering if it would be better to have just one stop and get the flight over with even if it means being on a plane for 8hrs straight? Or would it be better for our son to have a couple layovers before we get there to break things up? I took my son on a 1-way flight to Virginia when he was about 7mos old but that was only about 2 1/2hrs long. I am so nervous about having him on a plane all the way to Hawaii! I would really appreciate any advice that you all could give me. This is my first child and we are not world travelers by any means. I know there are some families out there who do it all the time. I am just so worried that we are going to get a bunch of SkyMall catalogs thrown at us or something because we made our itinerary worse than we should have:). Oh, and we fully intend on bringing our portable DVD player so hopefully that will help a lot! Anyone ever use a Sit & Stroll? We might borrow one from our neighbor. I am not sure, but I think our son would be required to sit in a car seat? Can you tell how clueless I am, sorry....

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L.M.

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I have had a Sit n' Stroll for my daughter for 1 1/2 years now. I think it is great; when she falls asleep, I can leave her in the seat and just "convert" it to a stroller. It is best to have your son in his own seat for the flight, and therefore you will need a car seat (or the Sit n' Stroll.) It will not fit through most airline aislesways now, so you or your spouse will have to carry it aboard the plane. A "bulkhead" seat (front) will give you more room to stretch out, and even enough for your son to play on the floor some when "you are free to move about the cabin." You have no storage with a bulkhead seat though, except overhead. Some airlines won't let coach passengers use the front bathroom, so if being near a bathroom you can use is the priority, go with the back. If your son gets fussy, it really won't matter where you are on the plane (^o^). Invest in some new toys/activities that are surprises to him during the flight. Bring lots of his favorite snacks (as long as they don't contain liquid or gel.) Apples and bananas get past security, but I've seen oranges pulled out. My doctor recommended lollipops for take-offs and landings; the sucking action is best for pressurization in ears. If he won't lick a lollipop on demand, drinking (and therefore swallowing) is next best, but you can only bring 3 ounces or less through security (and all the juice packs, etc., are at least 4 ounces.) Once you are past security, you can purchase bottled water, etc. Eventually the flight attendants will offer you something during the flight. Make sure he gets lots of exercise before boarding. The portable DVD players only seem to last for about 1.5 movies (battery-wise; there's no electrical outlet to plug into.) You can use an extended layover to eat a "real" meal, freshen up, walk around, and recharge the battery some. When a layover is necessary, make it the longest you can; but if a direct flight is available, take that and get it over with, lol. Having your spouse available to "switch off with" will help, and don't be shy about walking with your son up and down the aisleways if that's what he wants to do (and the "seatbelts" light is off.) Strangers will usually prefer the inquisitiveness of a smiling youngster to his frustrated screaming in any seat. Flight attendants will often take young ones on mini tours when they have time. You're allowed one carry-on apiece, and making your son's a rolling backpack (maybe emblazened with his favorite characters) will give him a "big boy" job through the airport; just make sure you & your spouse can carry son and all carryons between the two of you, if necessary. My doctor also recommended a teaspoon of Sudafed one hour before the first flight (it can be repeated eight hours later) to help avoid ear pressurization problems. Hope this all helps!!

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K.W.

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Hey there Carla. I just took a trip to AZ with my 28 mo old son. I don't think your son is required to use a car seat (but double check). On the way there I took the car seat on the plane. It was nice when he slept but when he was awake I had to hold him because his feet were touching the seat in front of him. And of course he was kicking it. I stood most of the time with him. It was not fun. On the way back I checked the seat and it was much better. If you could get the front row behind the wall the seat might work. I don't envy you. Once you get there it will be all worth it. Good luck.

K. W.

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P.B.

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I would recommend if you can choose to sit up front near a bathroom. I always had more trouble getting a carseat and all our bags through the aisle. Bump..sorry,bang...sorry! With a layover you have to worry about getting all your stuff and carting it around. I personally prefer to go straight through,although 12 hrs is a long time. I would try to keep your son up so he'll sleep most of the time, which may be hard depending on his routine and what time your flight is. I'd say a DVD player would be good and any snacks might keep him busy. Just remember it will be just as hard for you to sit in a small airplane seat for 12 hrs. Take little breaks to go to the potty.:) Also don't worry about what people are thinking. Most have had children or grandchildren and know how tough it is to travel with them. Enjoy your trip to Hawaii!

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T.H.

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Get as many Layovers as possible. I took my son to vegas from florida by myself when he was 18 months it was difficult and would have been worse if we had a straight flight. Children cannot sit that long. Good luck

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