I have learned through my seven pregnancies - 3 of which produce beautiful babies.......
In 1992 I had found out I was pregnant. Told everyone and was ecstatic. I later miscarried and was at 10 weeks. Everyone including myself was devastated. I then swore if I got pregnant again I would not tell anyone until I knew it was going to stick.
I went through another miscarriage in 1993 (4 weeks) not too long after the first one occurred. I started training my brain that I would not worry about miscarriages anymore, as I (a prolife and very strong mommy instinct) needed to back off and have faith. (only God knew if each baby was to be born and I needed to trust him)
I then became pregnant soon after that one. Although, this time I started to notice signs that it may go long term. I noticed that if I take the test when I started getting nausea it was positive on the test... (this worked for me everytime) I told the dr about the previous pregnancies and was yelled at for not giving my body a break. I then said can we see if there is a heart beat. I know if I hear the heart beat than this baby would be ok. She was ok and was born healthy.(1993) I looked at the dr and said it looks like I have to get pregnant right after a miscarriage to go full term. He thought I was nuts.
I again got pregnant in 1995. Again before the 10 week I miscarried.
I then again got pregnant right after and went through getting yelled at by the dr's. I had asked again to hear the heart beat and sure enough that baby was born.(1996)
This time I got pregnant was much different although, the tests still were done after nausea started and it came out positive. This pregnancy continued until a baby was born(1999)
Then in 2000 I found out I was pregnant again. Although, this one would end in miscarriage.