She knows that the medicine makes her feel different, just like adults, some medication we hate because it makes us feel different, her mouth is dry, her head most likely floats, yes it calms her down but it has side effects, did you research the part it also stunts kids growing years.. you are wrong about taking it with food, belwo I supplied you with a link that says if you have trouble swallowing the capsule then open it up and sprinkle with apple sauce..
http://www.aolhealth.com/drugs/methylphenidate/how-should...
Here the thing about this medication it is highly addictive, which means you can not stop her taking it after she stops she has to be weened off of it. Did your doctor tell you while your daughter is on this she stops growing ?
Did he tell you that to ween her off of it two weeks before summer vacation comes, or xmas vacation so her body has some time to grow, did he tell you this medication can cause depression, and cause a child to be more
aggravated, I am a pro mom for meds if it is the last straw, not the easy way out, who am I to judge, well I am a mom of a 19 yr old son with Cerebral Palsy, Autism, Mild mental retardation, Add, ADHD , and the only medication we have ever had him on was for him to poop easier. Sure we tried for about a month the meds your talking about, and it changed him, I did not like the fact it affected his growing years, his mouth was dry all the time, and he sat like a zombie, he was guiet and shy.. I felt like it was robbing him of being him.. so what we did is this, at school so he could focus on something is broke up the time he spent on it, the teachers sent home his weeks worth of homework, all at once, so little by little we spent 20 mins on it in the morning and after dinner when his tummy was full and the house being quiet, he sat and did it. We stuck to a schudele it helped alot, we cut back 90 % of any food that contain any type of sugar of caffine, we got him into a sport, that gave him room to run.. sure days come and go where he doesn't have a good day, but that over weighs all the great days he has and can be his self, so I ask you this, is givng your daughter the last last resort and you tried everything else. Or is this just easier for you , give her a pill.. sure that solves it. Its not easy Mom I know that, boy do I ever.. there are days your pulling out the hair.. these are the days after them you get a baby sitter and go out to a place to relax.. but one thing mom don't punish her because she has a disability its not her fault she doesnt want to take the meds, they make her feel funny. If you would like support on this, let me know I will give you my phone number,
blessings