Hi A.,
I have 4 children and we all DO get flu shots. We have been sick before with influenza a couple years ago and it was MISERABLE AND SCARY when your children are young. And, when you have influenza it doesn't just go away like the 24 hour stomach flu it LASTS AND HANGS ON FOR UP TO 2 WEEKS AND THERE ISN'T ANYTHING YOU CAN GIVE YOUR CHILD TO MAKE IT BETTER EXCEPT INFANT TYLENOL AND LOTS OF LOVE. Plus, they DO recommend it especially for children, the elderly and even pregnant women as long as they are not in their 1st trimester.
I've read the other responses and understand their concern about Mercury but for children 2 and under your pediatrician is able to give them a dose WITHOUT Mercury in it. Kids older than 2 have to get the other version or get the flu mist at our pediatrician's office. We have never gotten the flu from a flu vaccine as it is not an active form of the virus. If you get the flu mist, it does contain live virus and the same side effects apply with the addition of a possible stuffy nose so I hear. We haven't even gotten the mist. The only side effects we've had from the shot was soreness in our arm for a day or so.
You do have to do what is right for YOU and your family. And, prior to having children I admit me and my husband didn't ever get them. But, after having kids and our older children bringing home germs from school or even being able to pick something up from Walmart because you touched a shopping cart that someone else just used who was sick...well, I figure it's better to get a quick shot than the alternative. So many people take themselves and their green, snot-nosed kids out in public and spread their germs when they don't bother to cover their mouths when they cough so since so many people are inconsiderate...it's up to me protect my children and family the best way I know how. You can't stop living just to avoid the fear of getting sick.
But of course, different strokes for different folks! Best Wishes and just be comfortable with whatever decision you make. Good news is that even if you decided to get it this year and not the next or vice versa...you're not locked into doing it every year and it is a personal choice. My opinion is that if people who have the flu would stay home when they're sick than it wouldn't spread so bad and then we wouldn't need a vaccination. Also, my pediatrician did recommend that if I got it for my children that I should also get one too. It defeats the purpose if I get sick and expose them. Take care!