J.T.
you say you've never used protection except counting, but have you guys actively TRIED to conceive. i would think that after about 4-5 months of activetly trying to conceive that you would want to have some testing done. good luck to you! prob the first test will be a blood test run on days 3 and 23 of your cycle to check for ovulation. are you using any ovulation predictor kit?