T.D.
If you want to stay in Elk Grove The Spaghetti Factory is very family friendly. Another idea is The Family Room now called Evan's Kitchen in east Sacramento. The web page is http://www.chefevan.com/menus/menu_children.aspx. It's fun. There's a kids'play area and the food is excellent. My daugher (age 4) likes Islands(on Bond by Cal Fit) too. Good luck!