Hi M. H. - I am a psychologist and I live and work in Ridgewood for the past 8 years. It was an adjustment after living in NYC, but it's a great town with lots to offer. I'd recommend joining the newcomers club for both you and your kids to meet people. Both my kids (now 7 and 10) went to the YJCC in Washington Township for nursery school and it's a great program with lots to offer (swimming, arts, music, loads of enrichment options), but has Jewish religious/cultural overlay so that might not be for you. My friends have been happy with Green Twig Montessori in Midland Park, West Side Presbyterian, Ridgewood Co-op, and Montessori Learning Center. I'd recommend a visit to the ones you're interested in if that's posssible so you can see what might the best fit for your daughter. They all have great reputations and you really can't go wrong. Hope that helps -
L. R.