Hello! I read the other responces and there is some good stuff in some of them. They all have good points. I think personally, every situation usually differs in some ways and there may not be a single solution. I understand about the private school thing, I would like that too, but at the same time, it is good for a child to be in public school also, because if not, they may be too sheltered from the real world and have no idea how to live in it when they get older. I know nobody likes it, but the world isn't getting better, and street smarts is a good thing to have. She probably is hurting from the divorce. Divore is hard on kids. You can help her by agreeing with her dad to only argue away from her. Set an appointment if you have to to discuss a disagreement. It is never good to argue in front of kids, and especially not good if it has anything to do with them. My son is having some problems this year also. Me and his dad get along well and are together. Some times these thing just happen. My husband who didn't do good in school, was already afraid of 4th grade, I thought he was being silly. But now that my son is in 4th grade and he was right. It is scarry when you child is doing really good and then they aren't. But I really don't think it has anything to do with private school.My son also, has become lax in school this year. He made all A's last year and is making mostly B's this year. I really think they get to an age, where they are ready to have a break, and so they take it. What seems to be working on us, even though very hard and tiring, is basically putting our foot down, and being hard on him. We tell him what we expect, and if we don't get that, he gets disiplined. Sometimes it seems he is always in trouble, but I would rather have him go in the right direction than for him to try to take the easy way out, and have it harder when he is grown. As for the multiplication, have her study the times table chart, starting with two's then moving up till she know them all.I know this is long, but hopefully something will help. It sounds like there is a lot you all are going through, and it is probably hard to adjust to these changes for her, but just remember, that what she goes through now, she can handle and it will only make her stronger.