Welcome to VA Beach! We moved here last March and although it is pretty crowded, there are tons of things to do with kids.
I belong to a MOM's Club that I really like. I have to say I haven't been the most active member, but the other moms are very welcoming and friendly.
Respond to this posting and I can send you my email address and the email address and phone number of the woman that could set you up as a new member. You are welcome to come to a monthly meeting (the next one is Jan. 5) and see what you think.
Again, welcome and I hope you like it here!