J.Y.
Hi J.!
My oldest (4) was diagnosed with Autism at the age of 2. She also has Hypotonic Cerebral Palsy. Through the clinic that I take her to for therapy (Community Therapy Services) we have a parent support group that meets every third Tuesday. Let me know if you would like the info. I am one of the parent liaisons. :-) Many of the moms in this group either have a child on the spectrum or some kind of delay. I think that Community Therapy Services may have an Autism Support Group as well.
Also, I help run an online support group through cafemom. It's called, "Parenting Special Needs Kids." This group has been an awesome help with support. Here is the link: http://www.cafemom.com/group/32
Both of these groups are a great way to network and meet other moms going through the same kind of issues.
Email me if you want more info or you just want to talk! I live in the South Elgin area, so that might be a little out of your range, but you never know. :-)
Take care,
J.