Hi Jeanna,
There is also a Meet Up group in the St. Paul area. Here's the address:
http://sahm.meetup.com/114/
We are actually having a playdate next week in Eagan around 10 or 10:30. We are trying to get together every week at somebody's house for a playdate, but we also do events in and around the twin cities. Most members live in St. Paul or on the eastside of the cities (Eagan, Burnsville, White Bear Lake, Woodbury, etc.) We recently went to the apple orchard and had a really fun Mom's Night Out where we learned to play poker. It was a hoot! It's a great place to find out what's going on and to meet other stay at home moms.
It's free to join. Hope to see you there!
E.