D.K.
The only way to determine for sure if your baby has downs at this point is to do an amnio. So the question is which is better for you. Some people would rather find out at the end of the pregnancy; others would worry the whole time and it would be better to know now. There seems to be a falaciy that if you get an amnio and the results are not "normal" then you terminate. This is not true. For many parents knowing now gives them time to become informed. I have seen other families who knew there was a possibility and chose not to have an amnio. When the chromosomes comes back confirming downs it's like a death. (Please understand I am talking about human reactions here, not what is right or wrong or what eveyone experiences) Whereas those who have the diagnosis prior to birth, have time to get information and emotionally accept the diagnosis prior to birth. So you need to decide which option makes the best sense for you and your family. One final thought, sometimes knowing what the problems are prior to birth may effect where you deliver and therefore your child gets the best care he/she needs right away and doesn't need to be transfered to another institution for care. Good luck! Hopefully all this worry is for nothing. Unfortunately worring as a parent never stops, what you worry about changes.