Sex During Pregnancy!! - Torrance,CA

Updated on August 25, 2015
C.W. asks from Torrance, CA
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I've looked through other questions and could not find an answer for my specific concern and I am scared to google the answer lol.
Pregnant with our fifth baby, hubby and I have found it difficult to find a good position that is comfortable and feels good for both of us. This has never been an issue with our other pregnancies! I'm 30 weeks now, dr says its fine that we are still active, low risk, etc.
TMI warning:
We've tried these ones:
Missionary is just a no go. Backwards my belly and boobs shake too much and it hurts! I can't be on top because I have hip problems during third trimester of pregnancy.
There are probably others I'm forgetting.
Any good positions that you enjoyed while in the third trimester? Any special tricks that worked well to get started or add to the lovin?

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J.G.

answers from Chicago on

I found being on my side with him entering from behind comfortable. I could then support my belly with a pillow.

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F.W.

answers from Danville on

Maybe mutual hand and/or oral stimulation?

On your sides?

With my last pregnancy (twins) I found it pretty exciting to watch my ex do a load of laundry or cook while I relaxed...

Best!

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M.C.

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I'm currently 34 weeks. Our two go-to positions are:

Doggy, or a modified doggy. (Works best for us if he stands and I assume the position on the edge of the bed.) I usually wind up holding onto a pillow to support my belly, lol.

Have him lay on the bed with his feet over the edge, then you straddle with your back to him. Your legs can be inside or outside of his; whichever works best for you. Hold onto his knees to help you balance, lol. Not very intimate, but better than no sex.

Good luck!

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G.♣.

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Both on your side, facing each other, your leg around him - you might have to role back slightly.

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D..

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Like Gidget said, like scissors...
...that was really funny about the laundry, Feline!! LOL!

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K.M.

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You lay on the bed and he stands next to it...your bodies make a 90 degree angle. If your bed isn't tall enough, you can sit on the couch (butt close to edge) and he can be on his knees.

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N.B.

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Leaning forward on a soft piece of furniture, like a couch or chair or the edge of the bed. This keeps the shaking down. Putting a nice soft pillow under the boobies will keep the pain down in them too.

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S.S.

answers from Atlanta on

With our 4th, Tyler and I had problems like this.

We ended up buying a like this:

http://www.overstock.com/Bedding-Bath/Comfort-Dreams-Pers...

and placing it under me for comfort. laying with your back to him or a "V" position so he has a better angle will help too.

Good luck! you don't have much longer!

M.M.

answers from Chicago on

We were always fans of hanging my butt off the end of the bed while he stood.
Or, he is sitting on his knees, with your butt hiked into his lap - you still on your back. Can stay like that for too long, but you get the gist.

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O.O.

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Side by side, or doggy with 2 pillows under belly & boobs.

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