The tortilla and cheese is the better option. Those are both simple foods. Salami is a highly processed food, as is white bread.
PB alone is better than with jelly, because jelly is nothing but sugar.
Now that said, I don't put much deep thought into my kids' lunches nor do I tend to judge others.
The only time I take notice is when a kid's lunchbox is full of nothing but junk food. When my son was in Kindergarten I was helping out in class and a little girl's lunch had chips, two kinds of cookies, gummy worms, Kool-Aid, and a chocolate candy bar. This did not make her happy. She wanted things the other kids had. The other kids shared and in the end, she had a milk, a string cheese, a bunch of green grapes, some baby carrots and half a PB sandwich.