my sons second grade teacher has a sticker party at the end of every month. they have gobs of junk food, watch a movie and just hang out.
the kindergarten class has had pizza, popcorn, and ice cream parties. they get free play choice time for every 100 boxtops they bring in as a class.. and the kids love choosing what they get to do ( play outside, in any of the 'centers' like pretend play in the kitchen center, the art center, playdough, computers, its the childs choice and they get to pick then play for an extra 30 minutes.)
for their valentines party my sons class made slime. it was the hit of the party. i was the mom in charge of the slime station, we used a simple recipe, the kids mixed it with their hands, we made a big mess. allowed them to add glitter, paint to make colors.. my kindergartner was jealous! me ant the room mom in charge of the party cleaned up the mess after it was over. kids loved it
i like having the kids vote! that was a great suggestion. put 3 party ideas on a ballet and let them decide!