Speech Delay in Toddler

Updated on March 17, 2010
B.P. asks from Schooleys Mountain, NJ
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Hi moms,

My son just turned 2 on March 13 and has no siblings. He is with me most of the time although he does go to a sitter a few times a week and also to Gymboree. My question is that I am having him evaluated by Early Intervention since he has about 25 words and he should have about 50 at this age. I don't think he has autism because he communicates very well using a combination of words he does know, gestures, and either physically bringing us to what he wants or showing us. He loves to identify things he knows on tv, when we are out and in books. He also understands and obeys almost everything we say, makes good eye contact, and is affectionate and interested in others. No compulsive behaviors or stimming. He has had 2 ear infections in his life so its not a hearing issue. As far as putting words together he does occasionally put 2 words together and he will often ramble on with what should be a couple sentences but it sounds like he is speaking another language with a few real words thrown in. Did any other moms have this experience? What did the team say was the cause of the delay and was the therapy helpful? What about moms that didn't get EI?

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K.D.

answers from Dallas on

Did he just turn two? It would be more helpful to me to know how many months he is I guess. I am going to assume he is a 'younger' two year old...he is not behind. You would be amazed what will happen with his speech over the next couple of months. For example...my daughter spoke a handful of words for the longest time, then all of the sudden she was talking in sentences. We moved out of state on her second birthday when she was speaking that handful of words, and 3 months later she was speaking in full sentences AND you could have a very good conversation with her. My mother visited at that time and could not believe the change. It really does happen fast!! But I will also say that you need to be even less worried for a boy, they just take a little longer. IMO, you don't need to worry.

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K.H.

answers from Washington DC on

He has only just turned 2 , this sounds perfectly normal that he babbles and has some words thrown in , and can put 2 or so words together. I really would not worry and if he still has speech issues when 3 then I would do the early intervention.

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K.G.

answers from Las Vegas on

hi
My son had about 10 words when he was 2, and also communicated by signs, gestures, pointing, etc. I got him EI when he was 18mo, and I think it really helped. He is 2.5 now, has about 75 to 100 words/signs and learns new words/signs all the time. He does form some sentences, and babbles a lot. And, sometimes that babbling turns into words/phrases. Your son sounds like my son.

EI and (all of the reading that I have done) say that some kids just speak later than others. Many parents think that early talker are smarter, but speech developement does not have anything to do with intelegence (so I have read).

Boys develope speech later, and if your son is the oldest (or only) child, that speech is further delayed. Us Stay at home mom's are SO on top of
everything that your child doesn't really HAVE to communicate to get what they need/want. EI will help teach you how to CREATE the opportunity for communcation. Getting him involved with other kids will help too.

Good luck.....and like others say.....things change over night.

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E.S.

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actually your son really isn't as delayed as you may think. He may be a little behind but no where near as bad as my daughter. She turned two in Feb. and has only maybe 15-20 words and not a lot of them are clear. I would say that for your son you probably can get him talking more on your own than with therapy. Plus boys usually talk later than girls in most cases.

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G.B.

answers from Tulsa on

We were concerned aobut J's speech and had him evaluated at 22 months. He was very behind in only that area. We worked with him at home and he did start saying sentences very shortly after but we are having him reevaluated at this time and he is behind in other areas now.His mother used drugs extensivly when she was pregnant with him so we expect to find some disabilities.

It's always better to know he' okay than to wonder about it.

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J.B.

answers from Dallas on

Has your son had ear infections? Our son had ear infections and he was tongue tied. He had tubes put in and his tongue clipped and it was amazing the speed at which his vocabulary picked up.

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D.S.

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just cause theres no ear infection doesn't mean there is no fluid. And if he had fluid its like hearing underwater. Only an audiologist can tell you if theres fluid. If yours is 2 speaking 25 words and you consider that bad mine is 22 month has said 5 words and its not consistant. His tubes aren't done working yet relax. Sounds like he needs speech therapy but thats not going to help if he has fluid get his ears checked.

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