So I have this very akward question. And please I don't need relationship advice as mine is doing fine. All I am asking is how do you spice it up when things get to well the same? I am looking for something I can do that will put a spark back in bf's eye.
Bf is my best friend and we are constantly smiling and laughing, ok that is a little over board but it is a great relationship. We are so much alike but just different enough that it keeps us wondering. He is kind of a push over when it comes to the "that" side of our relationship. Please ladies help I need a little help!
I have found it is as easy as never forgetting when you were first dating. How you looked at each other, how you felt when you looked at each other, how you felt when you kissed.
Hold on to that and it never gets boring.
My husband is a push over on "that" side of our relationship also. He is very passive when it comes to "it".
He is scared to try new things...
Well a few weeks ago I tied his hands together with a tie. He could move his arms and everything just his hands were bound together. He had to be more creative on how to do things since he couldn't use only one hand.
Other things I have done is not let him remove my undies until I do it or he can only use hands/ no mouth or vice verse. Little things like that make you get out of your routine and adds a little spice with out going way out.
Body paint is also fun.
As others have said "toys" but not everyone is comfortable with those.
Warm oil massage before the foreplay... the flavored oils are nice and taste good while kissing them.
blind folding is also fun since they aren't sure what is coming next.
If he is a push over then you will have to start each of these and hopefully after a few times he will open up to it more... but if he is like my husband he wont start any of them but he enjoys doing them.
Have fun!
take a trip to one of the adult stores, ours is called new fine arts..
me and my husband just went recently, both our first time, and we bought some stuff.. and It was real nice,
the spice was definatly there that night...
First of all, you can have a great relationship and still spice it up occasionally. Just because you mentioned spice, don't let others make you think something is wrong. It is normal.... you are maintaining a good relationship. So no relationship advice from me but I love spice advice!!!
Sometimes, I send naughty texts in the am for what is to come in the evening, Sometimes I will put a naughty picture with it.
Answer the door in something he loves, does not have to be fancy.. A lot of guys like a white tee shirt and no bra.
Does he like toys, if so, they can be fun.. If not, get some fancy lube to spice up some sensations. We have a store called Sara's Secret and it is a very clean place with lots of spicy things, not at all cheesy to go into or anything like that.
Enjoy and have fun.. that is what its about!!
