My daughter had this surgery after a year or so of wearing glasses, w/no results. Both her eyes turned inward, never at the same time, not all the time, usually when she was tired. I definitely would recommend getting more than 1 opinion. We were seeing an opthomologist in Wilm. DE who I really liked, but HATED her office staff. They definitely did not like children! When I talked to her about the surgery, she had only performed like 12 over the last 2 years at A.I. Institute, a very well respected children's hospital in DE. When I told her that I wanted to get another opinion she got very irritated.
I ended up w/ Dr. Repka @ Wilmer (I always forget if it's Wilmer or Will's. I think Will's is in Phila.) Eye institute in Balt. Anyway, Dr. Repka had performed like 3 of these surgeries a day for the last 10 years, or something like that. What a class operation "Wilmer" was! Very professional and competent staff. Nice state of the art facility and an easy drive from DE.
I think my daughter was 4 when she had the surgery. I thought at the time they recommended having it done before the age of 6. Recovery was almost immediate, I think she slept most of the rest of the day and was fine the next day.
She is now 15 and has no problems w/her eyes or vision. I take her to an optometrist every year just to make sure. Post op, I had to go back to Balt. a week or 2 later and then after my one year check-up Dr. Repka said she was fine at that I didn't have to come back again.
I know someone who had the surgery from the first women I went to and she still has strabismus and has to wear glasses!
Go where the experience is and definitely get more than one opinion. Yes it's an inconvenience but when it comes to your kids eyes, spare no expense or time.
As far as the surgery, I think it is harder on the parents than the child. It really was no big deal for her. It was a 45 minute outpatient surgery. I think we were home by noon. The anesthesia is what scared me the most but the hospital was very good w/the kids and she didn't have any adverse affects from it.
Best wishes.