Brandi, I've been to Disneyland twice and both times thought how much fun this was and how much more fun it would be with kids. My granddaughter will be 9 in a month and she's been asking to go for a few months now. I know she would enjoy it. I'm not sure that my soon to be 6 would have so much fun.
I was in my early 30's and twice near DisneyLand on business and was only able to stay for most of one day each time. It was a blast! While there we ran into a family of someone with whom we worked and they were also having great fun. Their two kis were probably around between 9 and 12. We all agreed that although we were getting tired it was the best time we'd ever had at an entertainment park.
I've seen ads for packages that would allow a family to divide their visit into more than one day and could even include other sites such as Knottsberry Farm. I really enjoyed Knottsberry even tho I was one of 2 adults, both of us co-workers.
Both of these trips were 30 or so years ago. One was off season and the other during spring break. The park was very busy and it's no doubt even busier now. I don't know how well they've planned for increased crowds. A positive was that there were so many places to see and/or ride that we never waited very long in line. Perhaps 20 minutes or so. We had no waits at Knottsberry Farm.
About 15 years ago I helped chaperone my middle school daughter's group to a Twelve Flags Entertainment Park (I'm not sure I have the name quite right) in California. I don't remember where, now. We took a bus load of kids. Again, I very much enjoyed the trip in spite of being with a bus load of kids and a bus that broke down for several hours in Medford. We came from Portland.
We didn't have such parks when I was a kid. I became a very much grown up kid on these visits. On the first trip, my co-worker said he had as much fun watching me as he'd had before. I know my 9 yo granddaughter would love any of those parks. I think that my grandson at 3 or even my granddaughter at 3 would have fun but they would've tired all too soon. Then again, they fit in a stroller and both of my grandkids could fall asleep and be unconcerned while the rest of us did our thing.
I've also been to Mexico, Puerto Vallarta, and very much enjoyed the country, people and culture. I've read about resorts like Sandols and think that would be a great family vacation also. I don't know if it's Sandols or another family resort in Mexico. I've never been but they sound great.
I've also read about cruises with programs geared towards kids. Again I very much enjoyed the cruise I took on the Mediterraneon. The ship was small and only employees of GM were aboard. No children. I could see how a cruise could be great fun for kids too if kids were a focus. The cruise companies go out of their way to be sure everyone is having a good time.
I've read about a cruise company with DisneyLand focus. I think that would be ideal. It sounded like their focus was very much on the kids but still catered to adults. Being on a ship is so relaxing. The food is excellent. There are pools, sports courts, evening entertainment, etc. By being on the ship parents would get to know the adults involved with their children and feel comfortable spending time away from the children as well as with them. The best of both worlds.
I think your decision will depend quite a bit on your children's personalities. My granddaughter is outgoing and game for almost anything. The first time I went to 24 Hour Fitness she didn't want to leave the kid's room. She was one of the oldest at 8 and that didn't matter. The set up seemed a bit young to me but she had a wonderful time and didn't want to leave. On the other hand my grandson is quieter and covers his ears when things get too noisy. He takes time to get to know other kids. I think DisneyLand might be too intense for him.
From what I've read about a child focused cruise and a resort such as Sandols I think both of my grandchildren would enjoy it. And parents get to do some adult things too. If you took the cruise, you'd have some time at DisneyLand too. I don't know how expensive it is.
When I was a kid 50 or so years ago our family went tent camping at Clear Lake and Paulina Lake in Central Oregon. We camped near the lakes. I know the area is used by more people now but when I was there a few years ago the tent campground seemed similar tho larger. When I was 10, I had brothers 8, 6, and 3, We were camping when the youngest was still a non-walking baby. I remember having a lot of fun. Our parents didn't care if we got dirty and camp food is the best! The smell of brewing coffee and sizzling bacon served up with pancakes. The summer I'm remembering I took a doll and a lot of doll clothes. My brothers took cars and trucks and we all used our imaginations. Of course I am remembering from a child's view. :)
Everyone in my family would love to just spend a week at the beach, rent a cabin or condo near the beach and for the most part veg out. The only problem would be getting an adult break. My daughter, my two grandchildren and I have sometimes joined my cousin and her husband and we took turns entertaining the kids. We usually go to Rockaway Beach. Seaside and Cannon Beach are just too crowded any time of the year now.
I'm less energetic now and enjoyed just sitting on the beach watching the kids while they play in the sand. For the last two years, at ages 7 and 8, my granddaughter loved to explore. When it was just the two of us we walked close to the bank, looked at plants and other odd objects and sometimes pretended we were on an expedition. She has quite an imagination! She loves a fire in the earl evening on which to roast hot dogs and marshmallows. She thought it was even more fun for her the night it got dark earlier than we'd thought and there was a fine mist. We hunkered down with a tarp and warm coats. A blazing fire and the sound of the ocean are wonderful. We do have to keep track of the kids. They know no danger. They are beginning to understand. (8 and 5)
When my daughter was 8-10 we met my parents in Medford and spent a week visiting relatives. We stayed in a Motel 6 with a pool which made the vacation the best for my daughter, a water monkey. We also spent quite of bit of time at Lithia Park in Ashland. I think it's one of the most beautiful parks I've been too. There is a very shallow creek that my daughter loved. Also a good playground and at one time a small zoo. i don't think the zoo is there any more. The Shakespearan Theater seems like it's part of the park. The town definitely caters to tourists which should make it easier to get a trustworthy babysitter. I'd ask that they be certified by the state. One gets this with a criminal background check. I'm not sure that they're called certified but it's something like that. My daughter, 7 or 8, and I rode in a horse drawn buggy. The driver was adept at entertaining my daughter. We still talk about it. They have evening concerts at the Band Shell in the Park. Families bring a picnic, sit on the ground or on benches to listen to the music. I don't know if they still do them, I thought it was one of the most fun things I did when I visited as a child. My grandmother didn't like to be outside in the evening (mosquitos and other bugs) so we'd go early, early, to park on the street next to the Band Shell. I always wanted to get out but of course my anxious grandmother always said no. We did walk and I played in the park during the daytime. There were, maybe still are, duck and swan ponds. We took bread to feen the ducks. Guess that's not considered healthy for the ducks now. The swans especially fit right into the fairy tales I loved. The theatre looks like a castle and the park with it's ponds, trees, flowers and running stream did feel like it was straight out of fairyland.
My grandparents lived in Ashland and I spent a month with them every summer while I was in grade school. I've been back several times, been to the Festival several times and it still feels like a small town tho it's grown alot. Ashland has several restaurants with good food and reasonable prices that encourage the presence of children. The last time we were there my granddaughter was an only child at 3. She fit right in.
Writing has brought fond memories. I think that I've enjoyed every place I've been, both with and without children. Now there is so much info on the Internet one can plan ahead more easily. I think you'll enjoy where ever you go if it holds interest for you and fits in with your children's personalities.
I should've looked to see where you live before I started writing. I've been to Victoria and Vancouver B.C. Never with children that young. Both have beautiful parks. I've driven to Nanimo and taken a ferry to one of the islands in Puget Sound. Unfortunately I didn't have young children in my life at those times and didn't pay any attention to activities for kids. Both cities are large and probably do have kid stuff to do.
Kids would enjoy the acquarium in Seattle. There is a wonderful museum in Vancouver that my 9 yo granddaughter would love.
One of my friends took her son when he was around 10 to Victoria. He loved the ferry ride. They had a good time.
The Washington coast has many wonderful vacationing spots as you no doubt know.