I know that everyone wants to give a teacher a Unique and special gift. But I just want to give you some insight.
I was PTA President at 2 of our daughters schools. I really got to know the staff and teachers at all 3 of her schools.
At the elementary school the teachers started their own child care center for their children. They needed some money so we discussed a giant Garage Sale. I helped them organize it and they ended up making over $3000.
I encouraged them to bring everything and anything that was just sitting around their homes and in their closets.. in their garages.. At first it was the typical, clothing, bits and pieces of household items.. I finally called them together and told them.. I "knew darn well they had "Teacher thank you gifts" from all of their years of teaching.."
They were concerned that some of the parents would recognize the items, but I assured them as long as none of it had their names on it, people would not know and I would not tell.
We had 3 six foot tables of Bath and beauty items.. Soaps, lotions, bath salt, gels, loofas etc.. This was 18ft of unused unopened products.
There were 2 six foot tables stacked 3 high of mugs.. Some of them still had tea, hot chocolate, cookies etc in them.
Another six foot table of candles.. Scented, holiday, decorated, all types..
Even some VERY expensive candles.
Then 2 more 6 ft tables of teacher or school themed items.. Plaques, frames, desk sets, window items, knick knacks.. Many of these still in the packaging.
Another table of frames, so many frames, we got the giggles they were lined up and the ones in boxes stacked so high. Photo albums,
scrap books, "artwork", Artificial flower arrangements? Baskets..
And so after it was all over, I asked them to be totally honest, what did they like best as a gift from the parents and students?..
Every one of them said a note written by the parent of child. They all seem to keep these letters in a folder, a box or a book.
I told them that was great but a parent like me wants to give them a gift.. They told me some of their favorites were gift cards for Teacher Supply stores, Restaurant gift cards, mall gift cards, gift cards or tickets to events. Meals for their families...
And so when we all start going into the holiday season, keep these things in mind. A teacher who is just starting out, does not make much money. They do not have much to put up on their Bulletin Boards and are usually struggling just to survive.
A elementary teacher that has been teaching 10 years has taught 100's of students. Add on years and it ends up being a lot of students and a lot of "gifts".
The teachers that teach Middle school or High school, do not have homerooms or Homeroom parents, so they do not tend to get a lot of feedback from parents or students.
Anyway.. I just thought I would share, because I know we all want to show our appreciation, but keep in mind most teachers really are thrilled just being recognized and thanked as a "gift". I also liked to write a note to the Principal of the school telling hte about how great the teacher is.