V.S.
wow. im so sorry. i used to cut when i was a teenager. i didnt do it for attention, or as a suicide attempt, but instead because i felt that i was hurting so bad inside, if it were visible, (real) then i could make it stop. it was a coping skill, albeit the wrong one. looking back now, things werent that bad to take it to that level, and i still dont know why i did. depression is scary, not for just those who suffer from it. i didnt know what i was feeling half the time. i mean, it was hard to pin point any 1 emotion and to understand what had made me feel that way.
eventually, i grew out of it. i decided one day enough was enough and i didnt want the growing number of scars on my body. meditation helped alot. it gave me a chance to focus on my feelings and i would ask myself what about this situation is making me feel this way. i cant really explain it, but i would mostly have 2 reactions to situations. hurt or angry because i was hurt. i never really dove deeper beyond those 2. but once i did ask myself why am i hurt, why am i angry it became easier to understand and deal with the underlying emotions. painting, dancing and writing helped alot too. keeping a journal gave me the same sense on "emotional release" that the cutting did. im sorry, i really dont know any advice to give. i hope things get better.