I used to have problems getting my daughter's teeth brushed, but now she usually loves it. I let her pick out the toothbrush and toothpaste (there are so many kids options out there- sometimes just getting to pick the color or the character is fun for them). I let her brush first (have to remind her not to chew on it), and then I get my turn. I play a game with her where I chase the monsters out of her mouth. Now that she is older, she picks the colors of the monsters. I'll have fun with it and make them polka dot monsters, striped monsters, pink and purple monsters, etc. I pretend that they are running all over her mouth and I "get them". She has so much fun that she doesn't realize I'm getting her teeth clean! After she is done I always tell her how sparkly and pretty her teeth are. She's very proud to show them off. It is hard when they are 2 because it seems like nothing will get them to open up their mouth. I've also seen the light up toothbrushes, and I think I remember seeing ones that have music at Walmart. At that age you may want to try the electric toothbrush with the same games. Good luck, and welcome to MN!