Tell Us About Your Special Guy ;)

Updated on February 15, 2012
M.Q. asks from Perris, CA
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I can honestly say that after 7 yrs, he still makes me feel fulfilled :) I have truly been blessed with a wonderful guy, he has never been disrespectful towards me, he has never EVER been mean to me, he's a total goofball and amazing father and he is so nurturing it's incredible. The only flaw he has I have to say is that he works long hours, and I wish I could spend more time with him. I don't think anyone could ever top him as a whole person. Now tell us about the special man in your life.... ;)

@Rachel, that was the CUTEST thing ever!!!!!!!!!! LOL!!

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P.W.

answers from Dallas on

Together almost 30 years and still going strong. Yes, we disagree on occasion and we aren't always as kind to each other as we could be. However, there is no one I trust more. We support one another and respect one another. We are best of friends. We are lucky!

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R.R.

answers from Dallas on

Both DH and I have a need to be touched, and to be told often that we are loved. Therefore, we both show love that way. It is the very best thing ever. Whenever I lament about looking tired, or getting wrinkles, he will say "you just get better looking". He overflows with compliments, holds my hand,kisses me, tells me how much he loves me, and doesn't care who overhears. He tells his co-workers that I am the best thing to ever happen. And we've been married 13 years. It doesn't go away. We both always try to outdo the other with spoiling. It's really truly fabulous.

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R.D.

answers from Richmond on

He's short, kind of bald, is the messiest eater I've ever met, intentionally gets dirty so he can get a bath, wipes his snot with his shirt sleeve, is a crappy singer but super cute, gives sloppy kisses, won't eat red meat...

... OH!! You meant my HUSBAND, not my 2 year old son ;)

Yeah, my husband's pretty devilishly handsome, and he's got a nice butt!

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J.W.

answers from St. Louis on

I am crazy and he loves me.

Nuff said!

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T.N.

answers from Albany on

My Guy is the Sexiest Man On The Planet.

Sorry, Ladies.

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A.R.

answers from Houston on

My husband tied a bedsheet around his neck, put one really long athletic sock on his foot, stuck in a screwdriver in the sock and put a colander on his head. He leaped into the kitchen while I was cooking and our 13 month old was playing. He proceeded to do the most brilliant Super Grover 2.0 impression ever. Our son and I just fell out. That's the kind of man I married. Anything in his power to make his family happy from the mundane to the sublime. A moral, honest, loving, hard working man through and through.

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⊱.H.

answers from Spokane on

Just ONE example of how amazing he is...we agreed not to do anything for V-day b/c we went out with friends friday night and stayed in a hotel (the boys were with my mom). We considered that our v-day celebration. We had a fabulous time.
So this morning he got up with us (at 6:15 so he could see me and the boys before we left ~ he works swing and didn't get to bed until 2 am) and had a big box of chocolates and a dozen pink roses waiting for me from him and the boys :) I reminded him we weren't supposed to do anything for each other and then he asks "well, how do you expect me to teach my boys how to treat their wives if I can't get you anything on v-day?"

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K.P.

answers from New York on

The hubs... is by far my best friend. He is handsome and smart. He puts our family before himself on a daily basis. He does whatever he needs to do to make my dreams and aspirations come true... even if it means putting his own "wants on hold" for a while. He doesn't mind that I call him all day long if things come up.

As my husband, he is my biggest supporter and also my biggest critic (when needed). My mother still jokes that she knew I would marry him because he was the first person I had ever dated who actually said "no" to me- and meant it. He thinks I'm brilliant and never complains about me to his friends, unlike so many of his friends.

As a father, he plays with our son. I mean literally on the floor playing cars or outside throwing a ball every day. He goes to ALL school events, big and small and gets up in the middle of the night to chase away the monsters. He's a "dad" and he loves every minute of it! I think he's more excited than anyone else about our little girl coming in April.

He takes care of my family- when my grandparents were living he took care of their home and would randomly stop in to check on them and see if they needed anything done around the house on the weekends (without me having to ask). He spends every vacation with my family in FL because he knows how important that time is to my family. He calls my parents, sisters and nieces on their birthdays and spends time picking out "the perfect gift" for our twin nieces every year for Christmas and their birthday. He respects my parents and their continued role in our lives.

He respects his parents despite some pretty serious flaws. He takes care of his mother, making sure that she has what she needs since his father passed away last spring. He loved his family through a very difficult time and wasn't afraid of being sad when he father died. He talks to our son about his grandfather so that he will always know how much he was loved by him.

I love him more every day and love the life we have built together. Of course he has flaws, but wouldn't it be boring if they didn't? Happy Valentine's Day ladies!

Oh... and he created "Birthentine's Day" b/c V-day and my birthday are just a couple of weeks apart and he HATES Hallmark. So... he picks a random day in between and comes home with a cake, takeout and a gift! It's fun and I never know when it will happen!

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M.P.

answers from Minneapolis on

mine puts up with me. While we are not at our best in the 5 years together, it will get better, cause I wont give up on him.

He isnt cute, but then I wouldnt want him to be, cause I would be beating up a lot of women for no reason.

He stays with me, he provides and he is the most loving father. Thats all I need some days.

we can work on the rest

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L.W.

answers from Dallas on

My guy is stubborn, hard headed, strict at times, confusing as all get out at times, opinionated, BUT he's also the most caring, loving, hard working, great father, and fabulous cook! He will surprise me from time to time with little love things which mean the world to me. His cooking is out of this world. He just got back from the grocery store with shrimp and crab and steak...so guess what I'm having for dinner tonight!! You betcha!! Yum.

We have our ups and downs like anyone else and let me tell a few of the downs have been some real hum dingers. But we stuck it out and we are now working on our 12th year of marriage. So something's working.

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T.K.

answers from Dallas on

well, he just took time in between his two jobs to bring me roses, a balloon and a card because he didn't want me to feel left out if all the other girls husbands had sent something to the office! Turns out all the other husbands are in trouble now because he's the only one that did anything! I guess I'll keep him around!

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C.P.

answers from Columbia on

My Guy is the love of my life, my bookend, my everything.

And I know that I am his.

We are so very capable alone, but love eachother so much that we choose to need one another. I can't imagine my life without him.

A beautiful dozen roses were just delivered... :-) But he's thoughtful and giving and the BEST lover and provider every day of the year. I thank God for blessing me with exactly the man I need in my life...and I look forward to marrying him!

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N.G.

answers from Dallas on

My man is AMAZING. We have been together since we were 15 years old. He has always made me feel like the center of his universe. He is so hard-working. He is a wonderful provider, and an incredible man of God. He leads our family beautifully and always strives to be a better father for our girls. Most importantly, he does small things to make me feel appreciated, like leaves me little gifts or fills up my gas tank after I go to sleep, or bring me a fresh folded towel while I'm in the shower. He's my true love and he's my best friend. :)

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L.G.

answers from Austin on

I'm sorry, I have the best husband. He used to get up during the night to bring my crying baby to me to nurse. Then when they fell asleep after one breast, he would get up again to change their diaper (best way to wake them up!) and bring them back to me! Every night! He also was the one to read to them each night at bedtime until they grew out of it (I read to them during the day). He wanted to be sure to let me know how much he appreciated me taking care of them 24/7. He still does sacrificial things for me now as the kids are grown. Of course, I make it worth his while!

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L.N.

answers from New York on

mine is tall, mild-mannered, soft-spoken, genuine guy. he is your all-american boy.
he loves to cook, he loves my jokes and laughs with me and at me. he is a hard-worker, clean, neat. he isn't very funny but that's why he married me. we compliment and fulfill each other. while i am a firecracker, he calms me down, while he is quiet and not very social, i am very outgoing and help our social life :)
he is an awesome dad. he loves making cupcakes with our daughters. he will get down and dirty planting flowers with them while teaching them about nature.
he is not romantic, and that was one thing i had to learn to accept. but in a great scheme of things, he is picture perfect.
i just got really lucky.

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A.C.

answers from Cincinnati on

My Hubby is awesome. There aren't enough great adjectives for him. I met him 14 years ago, and from then on, there was no other man in my heart. I love how he respects me as his equal, how he's always completely honest, how his patience might be short with others but it's a mile long with me, how we agree on almost everything (and can discuss what we don't agree with calmly). I love what a fantastic and completely devoted father he is, and how his kids always come first with him. I love that when we go out together, we still have a great time together. I love that he is so understanding and affectionate - I really couldn't have designed a better partner for myself had I tried.

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N.N.

answers from Detroit on

He encourages me to be the best I can be. He is already there! Love that man!!!!!!!! Not perfect at all but he is good to me and our girls.

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M.G.

answers from Seattle on

My husband is a wonderful man I could go on and on about however I would much rather use this point to go on about my special little guy. He is 5, he is nonverbal, autistic, and gives me the best type of love I've ever been given. His ability to understand and expand his knowledge is crazy, to me, for someone who says but a few words. My special little guy has been telling me thank you all of the time either through sign or what he can verbalize. He makes me smile and laugh all the time. He just came over to me put his nose against mine and said "I do" which is his way of saying I love you. When I asked him about his day at school he spoke volumes about giving valentine cards and enjoying his pancake lunch.

Perhaps this may be silly to some but my special guy will always be as such and I'm very thankful he is my son.

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N.C.

answers from Rockford on

No...Liisa G...I do!!! LOL! I have been married to mine for over 18 yrs, together over 22 (since we were in HS!) and he gets better every year! He does laundry, mops, sweeps, dishes, coaches our kids, helps w/ homework, makes the bed, walks the dogs, fixes the cars, and the list goes on...on top of that, he spoils me rotten! I can't remember the last time I had to buy my own undies! He's a VS man and so that's what I have! :)

We are a good team and he is my best friend...my heart still races when I hear him pull in the garage or see a text from him! I love him and couldn't do this w/out him! And I don't need a special day to realize it...I know it every day! Have a great day!

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K.M.

answers from Kansas City on

I've been with my husband for almost 18 years...married for 11. He is amazing. He has never done anything hurtful or disrespectful. He always says what a great mom I am and tells me he knows how hard it is to be a SAHM. He is great with cards and gifts...even when he is deployed. When he's deployed he always sends a monthly gift--usually from Victoria Secret. He is patient, kind, and supportive. When we got married (and I became an Army wife) I told him he could never complain about two things: phone bills and plane tickets. He never has!

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F.H.

answers from Phoenix on

I'm blessed to have a hubby that works very hard for his family, spends all his free time at home and not at happy hour, does more housework than I do and plays with the kids, even when he's tired and doesn't want to. He loves me for who I am, accepts me with all my faults (and there are many as you all know) and he never asks anything of me other than to "be there for our kids". He is truly one in a million and I don't deserve him but am so happy he's mine. =)

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K.I.

answers from Los Angeles on

I met my man 15+ years ago...from the moment I first saw him I thought to myself 'now there is a Man'! Little did I know that he saw me first, 2 days prior when he came in for his job interview...

He is 6' tall, dark hair, great arms, dimples and smile to make you swoon! He just turned 40 and is starting to get some gray hair...I had no idea I would find it as sexy as I do ;)

He knows all the answers to Jeopardy but doesn't remember what he ate for breakfast, Ha!

He is so very funny...keeps us all laughing!

He is not much of a 'handy man' but he is the supreme camper and can build a fire like no other and can do that sexy jump over a fence in one bound thing. Made me all gooey inside when I saw him teaching our sons, and that is the truth!

He is far from perfect...doesn't clean *anything* (thank you MIL) but he LOVES me more than I love him, this I know for a fact, which is kinda sad...but I love him with everything I've got and wouldn't trade him in for anything!

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D.

answers from Houston on

I've been married for 10 years. Every morning I wake up and ask...Do you still love me? His response...It's brewing, dear. : ) He's the best.

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J.S.

answers from Tampa on

We've been together more than 25 years. and I can't imagine my life without him. We have both almost lost each other to medical issues, so we've had to face the possibility of that happening and KNOW that is NEVER what we want. My husband is funny, gorgeous, has an adorable backside, (the reason we met I may add), is a great dancer, a wonderful father. not only to our 2 biological daughters, but also to our nephew and niece who we got perm. custody of almost 7 years ago and who both have some type of special needs, he is patient, kind, nurturing, sweet, attentive, and a very hard worker. He is devoted as a husband and a father. He treats me like a queen, and our kids like princesses and a prince. He would lay his life down for me or any of our children, at any time, any place. He loves me very much, and with each passing year, and added wrinkle or pound, seems to love me even more. My husband makes me feel like I am the most attractive, desirable woman on the planet, and that he is the luckiest man alive to be with me. He has not only told our daughters, but has SHOWN them that a real man should value them and their opinions, and not treat them like their property. He loves all 4 of our kids unconditionally, warts and all, and always finds the amazing and wonderful in everything that they accomplish. He is the first to admit that he is wrong, if he was, and also the last one standing if he needs to hold his ground on something. He has a very strong backbone. My husband can fix ANYTHING. He is extremely intelligent, and very good with his hands. :) He is my best friend, my lover, and my confidant. Whenever something good happens, he is the first person who I want to tell, and if something upsets me, he is the shoulder that I cry on. He is the man who found it just fine to shed a tear watching our daughter perform on stage for the first time, and at both of our older daughters high school graduations. He holds me close to comfort me, but also to comfort himself. He has never had an issue wiping a runny nose, or changing a soiled diaper. He is the guy who will stop on the side of the road to help an injured animal when he is in a hurry to get someplace, or will pick up a turtle out of the road to place it in the grass so it will not get run over. My husband makes sacrifices everyday so that our kids and I can have or do what we need or want. Without anyone asking him to do it. It makes him happy to see his family happy. He is kind to some of the friends that I have had over the years who he didn't really like, just because he knew that they were special to me. (and I don't mean just "normally" kind. He went above and beyond, and would do home repairs, fix cars, and middle of the night break down runs for them) My husband will go to a midnight movie with me, just because he knows that I want to watch the new movie that came out, even though he could care less about seeing it. He never complains. Then when it comes out on DVD, he will sit and watch it with me all over again, right away, and enjoy just being with me.
My husband isn't perfect, he DOES have some flaws. Luckily, there are so many wonderful things about my man, I really never focus on the few flaws at all. His great qualities always override all of the negative. I KNOW that I have many flaws. He manages to see past all of those to the beauty and loves me regardless. We both know that our love is real. It's occasionally the only thing that keeps us sane. We also agree that marrige isn't disposeable. We want our marrige to last, so if there comes a time, which so far there hasn't, but if there does, when we even think that it's getting too difficult, we would do everything to make it work before ending this.
If my son ends up being even half the husband and father that my husband is........................... he will make somebody very happy one day. He has set a wonderful example of what a real man should be like.
Oh, and one more thing ............. my man gets one very important thing. Most woman, at least Moms, are most turned on by a man who is great with kids. A sensative, loving, and caring man with a child is a real sexy man! <3

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S.R.

answers from Los Angeles on

I've just celebrated my 21st wedding anniversary and I'm extremely grateful we got here! We met 25 years ago and he has literally been my rock through thin & fat, sickness, poorer and "enough to get us to the end of the month" (still waiting for the "richer")! He is my best friend and an amazing father. We had to go to marriage counselling 8 years ago to save our marriage. We're not perfect, any of us, but I thank God every day that I chose to fight for my family when everyone expected me to give up and divorce! Thanks to my husband I've overcome a severe depression and have 2 teenage children that I'm extremely proud of. "The path of true love never did run smooth!"

H.G.

answers from Dallas on

I just love him, plain and simple! He's caring and a good fad and he makes me happy. He's not from the us and I love to hear him speak Spanish. Here in Texas I hear it all the time but when he speaks it, it thrills me :) now if I could just understand it....

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D.T.

answers from Reno on

Am sick so apologies for delayed responding. I have to say this is one of the nicest posts I've read in a while. It is so sweet to see so many women write such great things about their men. And, of coursem I have to add mine to the list!!
My firefighter is tall and strong and handsome. He gives unselfishly of himself to others. He is smart and funny and makes me laugh every day. Every day he blesses me and our respective kids and is a good example of what a dad and man should be. Yesterday he told me I was like a beautiful precious flower held in the palm of his hand that he wanted to protect so not a single petal blew away. WOW. How can you not love THAT!
Thanks for letting us (me) share.

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