We've been together more than 25 years. and I can't imagine my life without him. We have both almost lost each other to medical issues, so we've had to face the possibility of that happening and KNOW that is NEVER what we want. My husband is funny, gorgeous, has an adorable backside, (the reason we met I may add), is a great dancer, a wonderful father. not only to our 2 biological daughters, but also to our nephew and niece who we got perm. custody of almost 7 years ago and who both have some type of special needs, he is patient, kind, nurturing, sweet, attentive, and a very hard worker. He is devoted as a husband and a father. He treats me like a queen, and our kids like princesses and a prince. He would lay his life down for me or any of our children, at any time, any place. He loves me very much, and with each passing year, and added wrinkle or pound, seems to love me even more. My husband makes me feel like I am the most attractive, desirable woman on the planet, and that he is the luckiest man alive to be with me. He has not only told our daughters, but has SHOWN them that a real man should value them and their opinions, and not treat them like their property. He loves all 4 of our kids unconditionally, warts and all, and always finds the amazing and wonderful in everything that they accomplish. He is the first to admit that he is wrong, if he was, and also the last one standing if he needs to hold his ground on something. He has a very strong backbone. My husband can fix ANYTHING. He is extremely intelligent, and very good with his hands. :) He is my best friend, my lover, and my confidant. Whenever something good happens, he is the first person who I want to tell, and if something upsets me, he is the shoulder that I cry on. He is the man who found it just fine to shed a tear watching our daughter perform on stage for the first time, and at both of our older daughters high school graduations. He holds me close to comfort me, but also to comfort himself. He has never had an issue wiping a runny nose, or changing a soiled diaper. He is the guy who will stop on the side of the road to help an injured animal when he is in a hurry to get someplace, or will pick up a turtle out of the road to place it in the grass so it will not get run over. My husband makes sacrifices everyday so that our kids and I can have or do what we need or want. Without anyone asking him to do it. It makes him happy to see his family happy. He is kind to some of the friends that I have had over the years who he didn't really like, just because he knew that they were special to me. (and I don't mean just "normally" kind. He went above and beyond, and would do home repairs, fix cars, and middle of the night break down runs for them) My husband will go to a midnight movie with me, just because he knows that I want to watch the new movie that came out, even though he could care less about seeing it. He never complains. Then when it comes out on DVD, he will sit and watch it with me all over again, right away, and enjoy just being with me.
My husband isn't perfect, he DOES have some flaws. Luckily, there are so many wonderful things about my man, I really never focus on the few flaws at all. His great qualities always override all of the negative. I KNOW that I have many flaws. He manages to see past all of those to the beauty and loves me regardless. We both know that our love is real. It's occasionally the only thing that keeps us sane. We also agree that marrige isn't disposeable. We want our marrige to last, so if there comes a time, which so far there hasn't, but if there does, when we even think that it's getting too difficult, we would do everything to make it work before ending this.
If my son ends up being even half the husband and father that my husband is........................... he will make somebody very happy one day. He has set a wonderful example of what a real man should be like.
Oh, and one more thing ............. my man gets one very important thing. Most woman, at least Moms, are most turned on by a man who is great with kids. A sensative, loving, and caring man with a child is a real sexy man! <3