L.C.
Gosh, I'm going to say this even though I know it sounds really mushy. The best "date" I've ever been on wasn't even a date. It was matress night with my husband.
Matress night is where we put all the kids to bed and then pull the matress down to the living room and have a slumber party of sorts. We play games, watch movies, dance, have a glass of wine, do some fun stuff ;). We stay up later than we would under any other circumstance, even if we had gone out. We talk about things that we never have time to talk about. We laugh and joke around. We watch really dreadful movies and laugh at them (think Mystery Science Theatre type stuff). It's the most fun time and all we had to do was move the matress.