Sorry this is going to be long.
You sound a lot like me. I’m also a basic cook who is trying to make healthier choices. It is overwhelming knowing where to start. I have found a lot of ideas on Pinterest about healthy eating. Something I learn is not to try and buy too many different types of fruits & vegetables at once or they’ll go bad and you’ll end up throwing them out. I don’t know if you have a Sprout’s near you but that’s where I get my produce. Their stuff is fresher and cheaper than anywhere else.
If you go to the www.undressedskeleton.tumblr.com site she has a tab that says something about “getting started” (sorry my work computer won’t let me post that link), she has good ideas on there about how to get started & incorporating fruits & vegetables, getting enough water, etc..
One thing that I’ve been trying to do is incorporate a different lettuce each week as they all vary in vitamins. (Someone had posted on pinterest a chart of all the different types of lettuce and their nutritional benefits). The first week I bought Bok Choy (never bought it before & didn’t know how to use it), I did the water & vinegar bath on it (that’s how I clean my produce) and stir fried it with some garlic and some other veggies in a little bit of sesame oil and it was really yummy. I stir fried chicken strips sprinkled with Mrs. Dash in another pan and added it all together with just a tiny bit of soy sauce. I served this over microwavable brown rice (from Trader Joe’s). This past week I bought I bought a bag of kale from Trader Joe’s and it was already washed & chopped up (and on sale!). I threw some in a salad & my oldest daughter made kale chips out of them. If I don’t know how to use something I just google how to cook_ and it will often pull up the info that I need.
I also try and buy new and interesting fruits. We have tried different melons in the past. I bought some witches finger grapes from Sprouts (taste like regular grapes to me) and my family couldn’t get enough of them. My youngest daughter loves mango but I hate cutting it up so I found a mango cutter at target and it helps a lot! We also love avocado (it’s a bit fattening but it’s the good fat so a little bit’s okay). If the avocado is ripe enough I just mash it up and sprinkle some McCormick’s garlic powder (I don’t know why but I only like McCormick’s garlic powder). I then use it for a dip with chips but you could use it as a spread for a wrap as well.
Have you tried spaghetti squash? It’s really yummy, low calorie, and healthy. Here’s a link with various ways of preparing it: http://www.food.com/recipe/how-to-cook-spaghetti-squash-7... I use the microwave version because I’m a lazy cook I make a meat sauce using lean ground turkey, the lowest calorie spaghetti sauce that I can find (usually the canned Del Monte Spaghetti Sauce), sautéed mushrooms (I buy the sliced mushrooms and then dice them up a bit smaller), either jarred or fresh garlic, onions (white or yellow), & bell pepper (any color). I actually got this recipe idea from watching Live Big with Ali Vincent (the first female winner of the Biggest Loser). She has the actual recipe up on her the Live Big Network but really you don’t need an actual recipe for it.
I get a lot of ideas from watching her shows. You can watch them online as well. She is full of simple ideas to incorporate healthy eating. She did a Flat Out Pizza using the Flat Out wraps. You can make a veggie version or use turkey pepperoni. She recommended on her show to use spices to add flavor to meats. She suggested using a Cajun seasoning to chicken or some other type of strong seasoning since chicken is pretty bland and spices do not add very many calories (if any?). Just be careful of the sodium levels. (She is also on pinterest.)
Another way of incorporating fruits & veggies is by making different types of salsas (mango salsa, pineapple salsa, the original tomato based salsa, etc.) & spooning those over grilled meat such as fish & chicken.
Also, microwave “baked” sweet potatoes or really yummy. I add a little bit of low calorie margarine and cinnamon and it tastes so good. My kids love it!
Oh, and also couscous is really good and fast. I’ve seen recipes for couscous salads that incorporate a lot of colorful veggies. I haven’t tried that yet but want to soon. We just eat it as a side dish for now. My picky husband and kids LOVE it.
I also get a lot of ideas from food.com. Here are some good ones that I’ve found & tried:
http://low-cholesterol.food.com/recipe/honeydew-melon-wit... (I love these)
http://www.food.com/recipe/mrs-dash-grilled-honey-dijon-c... (these were so simple & amazingly good!!! My husband doesn’t even like mustard and he never knew it was in this recipe.)
http://www.food.com/recipe/ww-4-points-crab-quesadillas-2... (these are great for a fast weeknight dinner. I’ve made them many times. I probably cheat a little bit on the cheese though.)
http://low-cholesterol.food.com/recipe/watermelon-and-cuc... (this is so good, my kids love it!)
http://cheese.food.com/recipe/ww-pintos-and-cheese-276402 (this is a weight watcher recipe & it taste just like Taco Bell’s bean burrito filling. It’s warm, gooey & cheesy! Pair it with a low carb whole wheat tortilla.)
http://low-cholesterol.food.com/recipe/strawberries-with-... (another one that I love)
http://low-cholesterol.food.com/recipe/cinnamon-oranges-5... (these are really good!!!)
http://www.food.com/recipe/hot-vanilla-197195 (guilt free low-fat drink)
http://www.food.com/recipe/popcorn-stove-top-119045 (We use this one a lot. Popcorn is whole grain. Plus you can season it up however you like. We love a homemade Cajun seasoning with extra paprika on ours.) I’ve also seen a recipe floating around online for making popcorn in a brown lunch bag in the microwave.
These ones I haven’t tried yet, I had them tucked away in my online cookbook:
http://mexican.food.com/recipe/taco-filled-pasta-shells-8... (this is also a weight watcher recipe & sounds warm, gooey & cheesy)
http://www.food.com/recipe/broiled-grapefruit-kid-pleaser...
http://www.food.com/recipe/chickpea-and-fresh-tomato-toss...
http://www.food.com/recipe/healthy-bow-tie-chicken-supper...
http://www.food.com/recipe/sweet-lemon-jicama-slaw-ww-382052
http://www.food.com/recipe/baby-greens-and-garlicky-white...
http://low-cholesterol.food.com/recipe/quinoa-black-bean-...
http://www.food.com/recipe/spinach-apple-and-pecan-salad-...
http://www.food.com/recipe/cranberry-feta-and-walnut-sala...
http://www.food.com/recipe/spinach-strawberry-salad-14409
http://www.food.com/recipe/black-bean-and-couscous-salad-...
http://www.food.com/recipe/avocado-tomato-and-hummus-sand...
http://www.food.com/recipe/roasted-edamame-84022
http://low-cholesterol.food.com/recipe/jicama-chili-stick...
http://www.food.com/recipe/hot-baked-cinnamon-apples-77666
http://www.food.com/recipe/kale-chips-110071
http://www.food.com/recipe/cauliflower-popcorn-roasted-ca...
http://www.food.com/recipe/peppery-cantaloupe-cubes-102423
http://www.food.com/recipe/oven-roasted-asparagus-with-ga...
http://www.food.com/recipe/sugar-snap-peas-with-tomatoes-...
http://www.food.com/recipe/roasted-asparagus-12192
http://www.food.com/recipe/ww-roasted-string-green-beans-...
http://www.food.com/recipe/ww-roasted-carrots-187151
http://www.food.com/recipe/roasted-green-beans-133821