If she hates college classes, then she should not go back, at least not now. She loves independent living and her friends, of course - who wouldn't? But coursework and perhaps deadlines/studying are not for her. So she was honest, and that's good.
If she has been going to college, or if she has been job shadowing in the health fields because she thinks it pleases her parents or because others have urged her to do so, then she needs to stop that. She's not invested.
I think it's a mistake on your part, however, to make assumptions about the workforce, such as "accounting is hard but paralegal work is easy." People TRAIN for paralegal and insurance work just as they train for accounting and other business programs.
If you're going to invest any money at all, I'd put it toward a good life coach and some aptitude testing to help your daughter discover - with her coach - what she enjoys and what she has natural abilities in. She can get an entry level job in an office, and she can look into taking any needed classes in things like Microsoft Office and other programs she will have to use pretty much anywhere. Sometimes the state's unemployment office sponsors free classes, and so do public libraries on occasion. Otherwise, the local community colleges often have courses - she can take 1 course without enrolling in a degree program IF she thinks she can manage in the college environment. But if she's upset and soured on college right now, then this isn't the right time.
She can make a good salary in any field if she's willing to put in the time to learn the skills. Have her sign up for Monster or other on line job sites and look at the entries for administrative assistant/entry level. She can look at higher paid positions for those with more experience, things she can aim for.
College is not for everyone. She should not apologize to a prospective employer for not completing her program. She can say how much she loves the office environment and mastering new computer skills, and that she learned that health fields are not for her. That doesn't mean she can't have an administrative job in a health care facility - there are tons of administrative assistant jobs there but she can also look at any large company that has a training program or a lot of upward mobility. This could include insurance, banking, software, international business, manufacturing and much more.
It's really important that she feel it's acceptable to her family that she embark on her own path, and that no one looks down on her for loving the office environment. No one in the allied health fields would have as smooth a job if not for some sharp administrative people behind the scenes, keeping the gears turning in a well-oiled machine.
She has to start somewhere. But she seems a bit lost and perhaps a bit lacking in confidence. That's where a seasoned life coach or someone with good experience in HR can help her sort out her skills, wishes, and needs. There are plenty of people who help hone a resume too, to give her a leg up and help her get noticed, but I think your daughter needs a boost to help her interview well and actually snag that good starting job.